My
daughter came home sick from all her NYE festivities. Some stomach bug was plaguing
the house she stayed at. Oh joy right?
She
ended up with something more cold and flu related.
Things
seemed fine until they were not fine and then as the evening wore on she began
to feel worse.
So
here it is Monday morning and I am at home instead of delivering a presentation
in my early morning class.
I
did not really want to do that anyway but still.
It
is not the getting up in front of people that I dislike. It is more the subject
matter in this case.
Still
these are low moments in a mom or families life when a child is ill. Ironically
she is actually sleeping well and if I had gone to school she would not have
missed me.
I
could have been home before 11am and she can sleep til noon. It just did not
seem good to take any chances. She is so ill she might not really have the
strength to navigate the stairs and the kitchen.I
did put a water bottle by her bed side. It is moments like this when I just
cannot imagine if I had to work full time. How single mothers do it will always
be a mystery to me.
My
first job after she was born my boss got mad at me because I had childcare
issues. It confirmed that work could not come first because I did not need that
type of stress and aggravation.
Mothering
has to come first. Even if all I do is putter around the house making tea and
offering moral support.
We
have some natural immune boosters to give if she feels up to taking them. I am
hoping this will pass quickly. I cannot have a repeat of last year.
Last
year I got incredibly sick on NYE and missed the first week of classes in the New
Year. That was a nightmare because it was a miserable way to start the year but
also because I was taking 24 units!
It
is in crisis like this that I usually remember we have misplaced the
thermometer. Ugh bad mom. lol
When
I get up off this couch it is at least a reminder to spray down the touchy
surfaces in the house. Whatever this is my daughter brought home we do not need
to share.
It
is also just a good idea to do every so often. Between that and hand washing as
soon as we come in from going out and about many ills are warded off.
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