Here is a life style blog containing musings from my random eclectic oddball extroverted social self.
Saturday, December 24, 2016
Monday, September 12, 2016
Monday, August 22, 2016
11 Social Media Workshop Topics
In recent months I have been hosting workshops for my Social Media consulting business.

Public speaking can create a business funnel.
Interest has been higher than attendance. Still I have mostly enjoyed the experiences.
That would be fine since the workshop is at a discounted price, if said interested persons would simply schedule a time to sit down with me to talk one on one.
Maybe they don't realize that they can. I try to point that out when I post the notices about upcoming workshops.
Ideally my thought was, seeing as marketing and social media are both such big concepts to wrap one's head around, to have people come back month after month getting a little more information to help their businesses each time.
Let me speak for a minute about the venue location. I have access to coworking offices. In the fall they decided to increase the number of classes and workshops being offered to the hundreds of members who stream through the offices and maker space daily.
I had been trying to get a spot on the teaching roster with no success but suddenly the door popped wide open and I jumped through.
If there is a Learning Exchange near you then you may understand more fully the structure of what I have been dealing with.
The average attendance of a class this past year has probably been about 6. People are busy and most of our events are held after work so I kind of get it.
For September I have pitched to do two events back to back on subsequent weeks. October is my birthday I might take the month off.
What I have also decided to do is offer, to aid people who are interested in my workshops and information but cannot make the times posted, email support.
NOT a news letter and not for free but individual, tailored and informative.
Below is the list of the topics from the events. If there are things you would like to know more about just get in touch.
November - Engagement
December - Tune Up & Assessment
January - Small Business Strategies

February - App Crazes
March - Analytics
April - Mistakes
May - Blogging Purposes, Uses and Benefits
June - DIY vs Automation
July - Privacy & Security
August - Understanding the Lingo
September - Video, Vlogging and Going Live

Public speaking can create a business funnel.
Interest has been higher than attendance. Still I have mostly enjoyed the experiences.
That would be fine since the workshop is at a discounted price, if said interested persons would simply schedule a time to sit down with me to talk one on one.
Maybe they don't realize that they can. I try to point that out when I post the notices about upcoming workshops.
Ideally my thought was, seeing as marketing and social media are both such big concepts to wrap one's head around, to have people come back month after month getting a little more information to help their businesses each time.
Let me speak for a minute about the venue location. I have access to coworking offices. In the fall they decided to increase the number of classes and workshops being offered to the hundreds of members who stream through the offices and maker space daily.
I had been trying to get a spot on the teaching roster with no success but suddenly the door popped wide open and I jumped through.
If there is a Learning Exchange near you then you may understand more fully the structure of what I have been dealing with.
The average attendance of a class this past year has probably been about 6. People are busy and most of our events are held after work so I kind of get it.
For September I have pitched to do two events back to back on subsequent weeks. October is my birthday I might take the month off.
What I have also decided to do is offer, to aid people who are interested in my workshops and information but cannot make the times posted, email support.
NOT a news letter and not for free but individual, tailored and informative.
Below is the list of the topics from the events. If there are things you would like to know more about just get in touch.
November - Engagement
December - Tune Up & Assessment
January - Small Business Strategies

February - App Crazes
March - Analytics
April - Mistakes
May - Blogging Purposes, Uses and Benefits
June - DIY vs Automation
July - Privacy & Security
August - Understanding the Lingo
September - Video, Vlogging and Going Live
Thursday, February 19, 2015
Updates and Info About Me
For those of you not in the know
I wrote a non-fiction manuscript for National November Writing Month this past
fall.
I decided to believe Jeff Goins a while ago when, You Are A Writer came out but still book authorship is not blog
posting.
Having a manuscript, even one that
needs 20K more words and heavy editing, is a thrill unlike any other in the
world let me tell you.
Meanwhile I have begun hanging out in writers circles. These are often filled with fiction writers. Much love my crafty cousins in literature. It is just not my genre of choice at the moment.
To this end there are writing
prompts that come along to inspire those who create worlds. It can leave those
of us who just report on things we have seen feeling a bit on the outs.
Today in a group for speakers
that I am in a prompt came in the form of a question about our lives.
Most answers were a term, a
sentence or two. I wrote 200+words.
Maybe the writer in me is itching her way
out.
Perhaps it just takes the right stimuli.
Whatever the reason I have
decided to share those words with you and invite you to the FB page where a
couple of other excerpts from the manuscript are posted.
I joined GoodReads, WattPad and some
other sites but I have not settled on where if anywhere the full story might
come out before it is edited and sent off to be published somewhere.
You will
have to keep in touch to keep in the know.
Question: Can you tell
me what frustrations you have experienced while working full time.
The group setting set the context
of the question as signs or reasons to embark on a self employment path.
This
could start with a journey of self discovery since for some it is not clear cut
what they should be doing at the same time they realize what they are doing is
not working.
My Answer: reminded me of the
story I am endeavoring to tell with this first book I am working on. Stories
that did not quite make it onto this blog or the Single Mom blog about my life
and choices that I have made based on the way I want to live.
I have been busy being a mother most of the
last 20 years. All in all I think I worked full time outside of the home
9months only. I mostly worked part time so the trade off is that I have never
had a career.
Eventually I started doing some Nanny work and got into a position with a family that was 50hrs a week plus.
I did not feel underpaid although I was, or over worked until the end when things were breaking down. I was working for another single mom and she was in retail so the hours were crazy.
Usually I like random odd hours and the flexibility of not having to do hair and make-up or be (fully) awake to be getting paid was the trade off.
Still when it was ending the fractures started to show.
When I worked full time I actually did 40hrs a week at one job and 15 at another across town with no car. I have always picked jobs I liked and only worked where I was celebrated not just tolerated so working has always been win-win for me.

My last job was in a yarn shop and I knit. Talk about getting paid to do what you love. The worst thing about it was doing mornings (10am) when I am a night owl. lol
Two co workers quit back to back almost, within about 2 weeks and I wound up working 50hrs plus again all of a sudden while living out of town.
Commute should be a 4 letter word because I dislike it so much. lol
This job literally killed my last car. The casualties of working. OUCH
Eventually I started doing some Nanny work and got into a position with a family that was 50hrs a week plus.
I did not feel underpaid although I was, or over worked until the end when things were breaking down. I was working for another single mom and she was in retail so the hours were crazy.
Usually I like random odd hours and the flexibility of not having to do hair and make-up or be (fully) awake to be getting paid was the trade off.
Still when it was ending the fractures started to show.
When I worked full time I actually did 40hrs a week at one job and 15 at another across town with no car. I have always picked jobs I liked and only worked where I was celebrated not just tolerated so working has always been win-win for me.

My last job was in a yarn shop and I knit. Talk about getting paid to do what you love. The worst thing about it was doing mornings (10am) when I am a night owl. lol
Two co workers quit back to back almost, within about 2 weeks and I wound up working 50hrs plus again all of a sudden while living out of town.
Commute should be a 4 letter word because I dislike it so much. lol
This job literally killed my last car. The casualties of working. OUCH
Thursday, February 12, 2015
I Further Write Like
I had never heard of this guy until 2013 when I joined up with local roller derby gals. One has a nickname referencing him somehow. I never asked her about it but I felt like there was some story behind her choice.
Best thing I have ever written or did I mix up this sample with the sample that got the SK label...sigh
I write that is all I know. History can argue about who I write like until the cows come home. I am just me.
My Writing is Also Like
I had never heard of this guy. He writes sci-fi but he is also current. Fitting I guess that I plugged in text from a post about social media and gauging our influence there in. Right?!
My Writing is Like
That is what I got when I plugged in some text from the first page of the mini memoir. It's got bite I will give it that. Macabre ? maybe but in a lighthearted kinda way.
You can check in with more of how the writing or editing is going. I wrote 50K for NaNoWriMo in November only to realize the story probably need to be about 70K to be complete. Irony
The FB page is named after the Blog Midnight Musings
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
Friday, February 28, 2014
I (don't) Want Fame
When I tell people I want to be well known and crack through the ceiling of ordinary there are those who shudder and ask "Why?" in horror.
I then remind them that vapid people who I will not name are already there. Some of them have best selling books and probably skipped high school English class.
In this day and age you do not have to have any talent or anything worth while to say or share for cameras to broadcast your messages to the world.
So kind of like Hope, the last little thing left in the box that Pandora was never supposed to open, let me out world.
Because I'm asking
Because I write
Because people need leadership aka us bossy women
Because horrible things are happening
Because others are avoiding their place
I then remind them that vapid people who I will not name are already there. Some of them have best selling books and probably skipped high school English class.
In this day and age you do not have to have any talent or anything worth while to say or share for cameras to broadcast your messages to the world.
So kind of like Hope, the last little thing left in the box that Pandora was never supposed to open, let me out world.
Because I'm asking
Because I write
Because people need leadership aka us bossy women
Because horrible things are happening
Because others are avoiding their place
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Sacramento Food Film Festival 2014
Sacramento Food Film Festival 2014: The Sacramento Food Film Festival was created in 2012 as a way to showcase food themed documentaries. This year we grow to 10 days worth...
SCHEDULE
Premier Night!
Thursday, March 20 - 6-9pm
Enjoy appetizers from
Ten22! while watching the award winning Spinning Plates!
Saturday, March 22 - 4-6pm
Film: Beer Wars
Venue: Tuli Bistro beer tastings and apps
Tuesday, March 25 - 7pm
Film: Bottle Shock
4 course dinner and wine pairings based on film. Lucca
Wednesday, March 26
FREE! Documentary Film: Cafeteria Man: on school meals
Sacramento Natural Foods Co-op
Family spaghetti dinner with Sellands
Friday, March 28
Film: Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs at Clunie Center at McKinley Park
FREE! Film Saturday, March 29 - 5pm
The Slow Food Story at the Guild Theater
Documentary Sunday, March 30 - 4-6pm
Film: Sweet, Sexy Ocean: on sea urchin harvesting
Sunh Fish-19th & V Streets Sushi and Uni tasting with Bill Ngo from Kru
TICKETS NOW ON SALE!
March 20-30, 2014
SCHEDULE
Premier Night!
Thursday, March 20 - 6-9pm
Enjoy appetizers from
Ten22! while watching the award winning Spinning Plates!
Saturday, March 22 - 4-6pm
Film: Beer Wars
Venue: Tuli Bistro beer tastings and apps
Tuesday, March 25 - 7pm
Film: Bottle Shock
4 course dinner and wine pairings based on film. Lucca
Wednesday, March 26
FREE! Documentary Film: Cafeteria Man: on school meals
Sacramento Natural Foods Co-op
Family spaghetti dinner with Sellands
Friday, March 28
Film: Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs at Clunie Center at McKinley Park
FREE! Film Saturday, March 29 - 5pm
The Slow Food Story at the Guild Theater
Documentary Sunday, March 30 - 4-6pm
Film: Sweet, Sexy Ocean: on sea urchin harvesting
Sunh Fish-19th & V Streets Sushi and Uni tasting with Bill Ngo from Kru
TICKETS NOW ON SALE!
Sunday, February 2, 2014
Why Do I Write
I write because writing is powerful and there is almost a static electricity that doing it well produces. It zaps whoever comes in contact with it.
This post has been a long time in coming.
Jeff Goins' query came through my Twitter feed weeks ago. I went to read his post on Why He Writes.
Jeff Goins' query came through my Twitter feed weeks ago. I went to read his post on Why He Writes.
When he posed the question back to us his readers it hooked me and would not
let go. I thought I should have an answer at the ready but I kept coming up
with responses that felt half baked.
They question has been, as they say, 'stuck in my craw' ever since.
They question has been, as they say, 'stuck in my craw' ever since.
I started writing because I was a reader. I remember trying to copy
down the little kid books I was reading word for word as a child.
That never happened. Maybe I was priming the pump.
Next came the class newspaper that a couple of friends and I put together in the 5th grade. We were excited about our project although I remember it being more about art than stories.
Next came the class newspaper that a couple of friends and I put together in the 5th grade. We were excited about our project although I remember it being more about art than stories.
Not that we did not tell stories,
just that the art was well you know, the visual draw to it all.
After that came more reading. From that came the idea of keeping a
diary. This too failed, like the book copying, because I had this idea that I had
to write down EVERYTHING that transpired each day.
This takes forever when you stay up
with it. You can imagine what happens when you get behind.
Finally, along came class assignments that did not completely suck.
These were rare although not nonexistent. Somewhere amidst these projects joy emerged.
I loved experimenting with the power of the written words in its many forms.
I wonder why I have never written a full song.
These were rare although not nonexistent. Somewhere amidst these projects joy emerged.
I loved experimenting with the power of the written words in its many forms.
I wonder why I have never written a full song.
I have a verse all made up in my head, with music but I have not fleshed out the
rest of the tune and tale.
I have shared things that have come of my writing. I thought they were the reason I write.
Those things have been by products.
Those things have been by products.
The written word has the power to empower and inspire. I have shared on the blog a little of how I began to learn that.
When I started getting involved in online communities connected to things I am
passionate about my voice finally fully emerged. It is a powerful voice.
People respond to what I have to say. In my youth I would laugh to myself and
think I should be a headline writer or a newspaper reporter.
I knew even as a young person that my words had the power to at least provoke attention and reaction.
It is only in raising my voice, again towards issues that I am passionate about via the written word that I see the greater potential to not just get people’s attention but move them, through writing.
I knew even as a young person that my words had the power to at least provoke attention and reaction.
It is only in raising my voice, again towards issues that I am passionate about via the written word that I see the greater potential to not just get people’s attention but move them, through writing.
I write because I can. If no one ever responded to my writings, if I did not feel the surge of energy that happens when I get my point across, then I might still keep a diary but nothing more.
I don’t write to make myself feel better or clear my head. I don’t write for myself. I write to share because I have things to say and people are nosy. They want to hear, listen, react and respond.
I started writing because I was a reader. I remember trying to copy
down the little kid books I was reading word for word as a child.
Next came the class newspaper that a couple of friends and I put together
in the 5th grade. We were excited about our project although I
remember it being more about art than stories. Not that we did not tell stories
just that the art was well you know the visual draw to it all.
After that came more reading. From that came the idea of keeping a
diary. This too failed like the book copying because I had this idea that I had
to write down EVERYTHING that had happened. This takes forever when you stay up
with it. You can imagine what happens when you get behind?
Finally, along came class assignments that did not completely suck.
Rare although not nonexistent. It was somewhere in these projects a joy and a voice started to emerge. I loved experimenting with the power of the written words in its many forms. I wonder why I never wrote a full song.
Rare although not nonexistent. It was somewhere in these projects a joy and a voice started to emerge. I loved experimenting with the power of the written words in its many forms. I wonder why I never wrote a full song.
I have a lyric in my head with music but I never flushed out the
rest of the tune and story.
I have shared things that have come of my writing. I thought that
was reason enough. It is not why I wrote. Those things have been by products.
Writing for me is just another outlet for my perspectives and
feelings that I want to share with the world. I love to talk but people are not
always around.
They may not have the time that it would take for a conversation when I am ready. Instead they can read what I have written at their leisure and respond as they see fit.
They may not have the time that it would take for a conversation when I am ready. Instead they can read what I have written at their leisure and respond as they see fit.
The written word has the power to empower and inspire I have
learned most recently. I have shared a little of that story here on the blog.
When I started getting involved in online communities connected to things I am
passionate about my voice finally fully emerged. It is a powerful voice.
People respond to what I have to say. I used to laugh to myself and
think I should be a headline writer or a newspaper reporter. I knew even as a young
person that my words had the power to at least provoke attention and reaction.
It is only in raising my voice again towards issues that I am
passionate about via the written word that I see the greater potential to not
just get people’s attention but move them, through writing.
I write because I can. If no one ever responded to my writings, if
I did not feel the surge of energy that happens when I get my point across,
then I might still keep a diary but nothing more.
I don’t write to make myself feel better or clear my head. I don’t
write for myself. I write to share because I have things to say and people are
nosy. They want to hear, listen, react and respond.
I write.
I write because it is powerful and electric.
This post has been a long time in coming. Seth Godin’s query came
through my Twitter feed weeks ago. I went to read his post on why he writes.
When he posed the question back to us his readers it hooked me and would not
let go. I thought I should have an answer at the ready but I kept coming up
with responses that felt half baked.
I Write because…
Is that a complete sentence?
Some how I feel like it is.
The man who wrote the book You are a Writer has now dared to ask us: Why do we write?
Some how I feel like it is.
The man who wrote the book You are a Writer has now dared to ask us: Why do we write?
Ugh I read that question and the post he shared to go with it and
it has stuck with me now all this time.
I almost can’t answer.
Sunday, January 5, 2014
A Few Words for the Year
It is January of 2014. Are you excited? Have you planned out the way you want things to go? That might be a little over zealous for me. I do however like the idea of giving the year a word or few.
In 2012 my word was Random. Last year did not get a word and if I had to
go back and label it I might have to wash my mouth out with soap. In 2011 I
bought a car.
This year however I am Hopeful and Optimistic even while I am Waiting for
things to happen.
I was working on a word puzzle that had to do with animals and the word
nest as a verb came up. Something about it resonated with me. The idea of
preparing and making ready for future events just spoke to my soul. It is what
the idea of hope is based on.
There are times in our lives when circumstances seem dire or hopeless.
Maintaining proper perspective to get through these days starts with knowing
tough times don’t last but tough people do.
We have other sayings like “taking life’s lemons and making them into
lemonade”. Sometimes things we are dealing with change and other times we make
changes in our actions reactions and perspective to neutralize the pain we are
experiencing.
“Necessity is the mother of invention” is another quote that feeds the
hopefulness of every day. As I mentioned in a post about thanks giving this past November I try to appreciate the
good and what I have even in moments of stress and lack.
The year ended with me looking for a job and a new place to live. I spent
the holiday season with family and now the searches continue. New, new, new I
have a lot of expectation for the coming months.
I have some business ideas and book prompts stewing. My daughter will be
turning 18 and it is the last year for me to enjoy being 30something. Next year
I want to spend planning an awesome 40th birthday celebration.
I do not do resolutions they are just not me.
People start off the year with all kinds of intentions to do things they have been putting off for months or years.
People start off the year with all kinds of intentions to do things they have been putting off for months or years.
Lose weight
Get more organized
Read more
Clean up some toxic friendships
Ditch Smoking
My question would be what would make the first of the year a better time
for any of these things? If something is a great idea I usually want to get
right on to doing it.
I tackled weight one summer. I never started smoking. My relationships all
start off healthy and die natural deaths as needed.
I am an extrovert who appreciates that internet never sleeps, touches the whole world and is only as
expensive as my laptop and WIFI services.
How could I not be drawn in?
Monday, December 23, 2013
Staying Slim Holiday Edition
The holiday
season can be filled with events centered around food. Traditionally these
foods can be filled with carbs, calories and sugars. It is what makes us love
them and why the recipes have been passed down from generation to generation.
I write on
eating from time to time. To recap I am maintaining a weight of about 120lbs on
a five foot two frame. Now don't be a hater. I hit a snag years ago that
probably put me on this path. I started gaining weight.
Instead of
just ignoring it and letting out my waist lines I asked the internet what I
could eat without gaining weight.
The answer is fiber.
Up your
fiber intake and you can take control of your weight, is my theory. It has
worked for me. I prefer it much better than counting calories or food
restrictions.
It
forces me to think about what I am eating and read ingredients lists. It means I
can still have ice cream and chips.
Increasing
one's fiber intake means also increasing the amount of water on board each day.
Do Not forget this step please and for your own...comfort.
I did things
like started eating high fiber breads. They do not all taste the same. Just
because they say whole wheat does not mean they are high fiber.
Foods high
in fiber fill the stomach and give the full sensation. The last thing I wanted
to do was feel hungry and miserable while trying to lose weight.
Making these
every day changes to my eating plan for life paid off after a long while. It
took longer because I did not start moving more.
If all you
want to do is lose some weight you can go on a diet. If you want to change your
life and avoid the need to go on diets you need to do something else.
Not Another
Diet the Facebook page for additional support.
Older posts
on food and eating for weight loss and maintenance.
Eat Well For Life
Honor Your
Beauty Now
Finally lose
that weight
Healthy Fall
Eating
Fancy Eggs
no Mayo
A few posts about
fitness and fun
Equipment Check
Roller Derby
Skating
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